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It does not go away.
You
keep circling around it.
It does not get you anywhere.

The Cut is one conversation that interrupts that.

What the session is

One conversation. 75 to 90 minutes.

Online by default, or in person in Belgium.

I find the gap between the story you are telling about your situation, and what is actually happening,

and I bring you into contact with the part you already know and have not said out loud where you cannot take it back..

The loop you are inside exists because something is protecting it.
Not you. A belief you never investigated. Never questioned.

It operates beneath your awareness, organizing how the situation looks from where you are standing.
The smarter you are, the more sophisticated the protection becomes.
That is why more thinking does not solve it.
The thinking is the mechanism of protection, not the way through it.

 

Most people who reach me have already named the pattern.

They have a word for it, a clean account of where it came from, or any other explanation.
And it kept running anyway. That is the part worth looking at.
Not the pattern. The fact that understanding it changed nothing.

What gets interrupted is exactly that protection.

You do not need to prepare. The thing that needs to surface is already there.

My work is to name it plainly enough that it cannot keep being avoided,

and to stay with it while it lands instead of softening it back down once it does.

When this is the right conversation

You have been carrying something for months, possibly years.
You have located one specific thing that is not moving: a decision, a pattern, a belief.
You can talk about it but talking about it doesn't resolve it.

More thinking is making it worse at this point, not better.

The thinking has done what thinking can do, and it is still here.

When it is not

You are exploring whether you have a problem. You want permission to continue what you are already doing.

You want reassurance, a journey, an experience, or a tool to take home. Your situation is not costing you more than getting out of it. You are in psychiatric crisis, that is clinical work and this is not.

What happens in the conversation

The first part is locating what is being maintained and what it has been costing you.
The general becomes specific. The story you have been telling yourself gets pinned to one thing.
 

Then it gets named. Directly, not softened, not reframed into something easier to carry.

It stays held there until it cannot keep operating the way it has been.

In the end, we return responsibility to you.
The belief is visible and there is no "next move" handed to you.
Sitting with what just happened, letting it land without rushing to resolve it, is itself part of the work

What it produces

One belief that was running the loop without your awareness is no longer invisible.

What was experienced as a situation is now visible as something you have been actively maintaining.
 

You do not leave with a plan or a feeling of resolution. You leave with direct contact.
The clarity will fade if you do not act on it.

Acting on it is your responsibility.

It starts here.

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